Do you feel a deep yearning for harmony both inside and outside?
Do you feel a gnawing dissatisfaction with current life results no matter how 'good' things appear on the surface?
Are you ready for deeper authenticity in your various interpersonal relationships?
Are you so passionate about your potential that 'playing small' or 'struggling alone' simply isn't good enough?
Then it's time to get loud!
And step up to your next level of success, satisfaction and empowerment — whatever that may look like at this stage in your life journey.
My approach puts full control in your hands and enables fast results wrapped in insight, intrigue and fun.
It's not about 'working on your feelings' — although that does happen in the background.
It's not about 'high-performance success or productivity' — although that does tend to be a significant side-benefit.
Depth coaching starts from reflection of your origins and quest, and leads to a journey of deeply meaningful transition.
My flexible yet focused coaching style creates a transformative safety-zone for:
That's the gist of depth coaching.
And what could be more worthwhile than that?
Together we'll create more opportunity for balance, bliss and abundance than you probably believe is possible given today's environmental stressors.
You'll also learn techniques that build coherence between your head (creativity), heart (passion) and gut (courage).
As an author, trainer, qualified life coach and emotion therapist, I've helped hundreds of men and women over 15 years to achieve more inner harmony as well as deeper intimacy in their relationships.
At times you may want to push intensely towards a major breakthrough... and other times you'll want a light-hearted nurturing space for integrating new ideas and experience.
The first choice to make is to simply give it a go. Consultation calls are free, with no obligation and gives us a chance to connect and consider the opportunities of working together. No 'sales pitch'. We dive right into the coaching process so you can see how it works.
Choose the area of focus that currently presents you with the greatest opportunity or challenge:
Based on Jung's archetypes (patterns of personality and relationships) to both heal and connect at a deep level
Background > Beliefs > Baggage > Blockages
First we look at your current status and overall experience, including any pain and frustration being manifested throughout your life until now.
This gives you the foundations of authentic mindfulness and inner purpose from which to transform.
Heal > Attract > Connect > Nurture > Build
Here we consider your specific and unique goals and desires for transition by developing a clear vision of success, all based on your own personal life experiences and values.
This gives us the most suitable experiences for you to aim for during our coaching process.
Celebration > Connection > Coherence
Here we identify the milestones that will transform your current results into your desired outcome based on your origins and your quest.
This gives us the practical steps from which you can build new paths of fulfillment, success, and contribution.
Route 1: Spiritual Transformation - focusing on the emotional experience of inner healing and energetic matchmaking that liberates your love and light.
Route 2: Practical Technique - focusing on the practical steps to become your own best matchmaker, control dating dynamics, and manage the phases of relationship development without risk.
Combined Route - a holistic approach of mind, being and spirit on a journey of inward transformation and outward technique.
First we'll review your current situation. Then we'll define an achievable and believable vision for change. Then we'll gather together the insights and tools to make it happen.
Since you've read this far, we're probably on a similar page about making things happen for you so I very much look forward to our time together.
We'll work as intensively or as laid-back as best suits you for enjoying the process of transformation at your own pace.
Let's do this!
Sometimes you don't want to 'talk' to a coach too often, but need someone to provide support and insight form a distance.
The email coaching service is available by subscription and you can cancel at any time.
4 calls over the course of 1 month, giving us time to focus on your current opportunities for healing, growth and transformation.
Together we'll clarify your next big focal point for nurturing authentic intimacy with a worthy partner.
We have but one lifetime and a constant array of opportunities to maximize the peace and prosperity we experience. I commit to my clients by helping create the space each of us so desperately needs for reflection and transformation to occur at the deepest possible levels, right now, not 'when I can get round to it'.
We can be as intensive or laid back as you want to be. The important thing is that you are devoted to nurturing the closeness and fulflillment first and foremost in your self, then in your relationships that you can be proud of. There are no 'final answers' in life. Only an open-ended journey of ongoing discovery, opportunity and improvement.
Without my clients I could not pursue my personal mission of supporting our collective transition to the rising world of personal coherence and authentic intimate relationships. I appreciate you beyond measure. And I commit to working my tush off to best serve you in achieving your desired transformation and fulfill the quest of your heart.
Contact me if you have any questions before getting started or would like to start with a free phone consultation.
Q: Some of the descriptions of the coaching seem quite complex. Like what's up with that diagram? Is there a lot of learning required?
A: The coaching process its self is very simple. Through very simple conversation we impact very deep changes. It feels similar to having the very best listener let you vent everything you've got inside.
Q: What’s the difference between having a guru or master and a coach?
A: In a general sense I understand intimately where society is at. I’ve faced the deepest dragons of the old world. On an individual basis, I recognize everyone’s journey as wholly unique, and I never assume to understand. That’s not coaching at all. I’m not a guru or master. I’m not going to try and ‘teach’ you what to do. As a coach I create space. A coach doesn’t seek to flood that space. You as the client will fill the space with clarity based on your inner flame, stated goals, and current opportunities.
Q: When I’m at peace, I feel love for humanity, and put it on the highest pedastool. I feel peace and compassion. But when the world takes its toll on me and depletes me, I rage, am angry, at people at the world, at the system and its incredible capacity to drain. What stage am I at?
A: If you want to expand the peaceful state and reduce the depleted state, then we can coach. It will take time to truly illuminate what’s happening inside you. Ultimately, you’ll decide what stage you’re at. From there, we cross the threshold onto a new journey of transition.
Q: Am I weak for wanting coaching?
A: You are among the strongest alive today. Most people will not authentically open themselves to inquiry about their situation and options, due to fear or taking on self-responsibility for transition. By choosing to get coaching, you choose to face your dragons and refine your abilities. Leading athletes have coaches not because they are weak, but because they are strong.
Q: I think I’m a difficult case with lots of knots to unravel. Can you handle me?
A: That doesn’t make it difficult for me, it makes it difficult for you. We go a step at a time at your own pace. Remember, I provide the space for creative deep inquiry. You provide the context and content for your own empowered transformation.
Q: How soon should I be looking for big changes?
A: We won’t be aiming for change to begin with. The first phase is usually about the Origins of your situation. Gaining clarity. Expanding wisdom. Understanding the foundations on which your life is built, before we can begin to plan new actions. If you’re tired of the bullshit rut, excited about new possibilities, or simply ready to clarify your next level of success, depth coaching with me can add a significant new dimensions to your tool-kit of life management.
Q: How fast does the depth coaching create change?
A: The key insight is that we go at your own pace as suitable. I coach you to achieve meaningful goals at your own pace. To clarify those goals, to embrace them, to empower them, to build your own internal resources for moving forward. How fast or steady do you want to go?